On the wobsite, just go Manage Accounts>Privacy Settings.
On the software, just make sure you're signed in and online when you sync your tiny electronic friend.
And I love that song :)
I wouldn't call me brave by any means... More like crazy and shameless. As for showing the world that I secretly listen to Aqua, that happens automatically whenever you open the Zune software and sign in.
If it helps, I'll fave the Miley Cyrus song too. :)~