TOTD is the only way to roll.
You are so in my head blowing my mind. Knock it off.
As I said - Lacuna Coil for some good gothic metal (Unleashed Memories is the best album). Collide is kind of a gothic electronic rock sound I guess. Angelspit is some nice industrial... Unter Null for some terror EBM/noize stuff. Razed in Black for gothic industrial - Sacrificed is the best album there, as the newest one, Damaged, is a lot less industrial. Android Lust for a gal doing the industrial sound. Closest to CXS might be either London After Midnight or Blutengel.
Damn, now I'm jealous!! I would have loved to have seen them, but didn't discover them until it was too late... :(
You should so check out Lacuna Coil and Collide... I think you'll like...